• 一段婚姻中最受人矚目的大概是婚禮當天，但真正的挑戰卻在爾後漫長的歲月，失去了浪漫的儀式、親友的祝福，我們甚至只能孤軍作戰。
• 學習共同度過餘生的指南，包含二十張精緻卡片，列出了如何在婚姻數十年中維持與伴侶關係的思想
• 卡片語錄示例：
• In Praise of Compromise: ‘Couples who compromise are not the enemies of love: they may be at the vanguard of understanding what lasting relationships truly demand and what they are for. They deserve admiration, not condemnation.’
• On Sex and Marriage: ‘The waning of sex is – far more than we collectively admit – a sign that a marriage is stabilising, not failing. If we more publically admitted this, we’d be less panicked, less ashamed and a little less resentful when the sex got less intense and less frequent.’
